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The Daddies & Himbos of ‘For the Love of DILFs’ share their steamiest dating tips

Are you himbo on the lookout for your dream daddy? Or maybe you're daddy who craves having a special himbo to call your own? Well, who better to ask for some intergenerational dating advice from than the season three cast of the hit reality dating show, For the Love of DILFs?
So to ring in this holiday we got their insights and best tips on how date someone older or younger, and what they really want for Valentine’s Day
David
Daddy David
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What is one piece of advice you'd have for younger men in dating a DILF?
To still be true to yourself! Embrace the wisdom your DILF has to share and learn from their experiences, but never let someone control your journey.
What is one piece of advice you'd have for older men in dating a himbo?
Be their cheerleader, not a cheertator! Build your himbo up and share insights from your life experiences, but be careful not to overstep. Let them make mistakes so they can learn, but be there to catch them if they fall.
What is the perfect gift to give a himbo for Valentine’s Day?
After a year where more than 500 anti-LGBTQ bills were introduced across the country, and the recent election results, we as a cast decided to raise money for The Trevor Project, the leading suicide prevention organization for LGBTQ+ youth. The day following the election, their crisis intervention lines experienced a 700% in volume from youth reaching out. Send a clear message to LGBTQ+ young people that they should be proud of who they are, they are deserving of love and support, and they are never alone.
Victor
Daddy Victor
Courtesy Daddy Victor
What is one piece of advice you'd have for younger men in dating a DILF?
Impulsivity and ineffective communication are boner killers. Learn as much as you can from each other through working out compromises and focused conversations. Also, create joy together every day.
What is one piece of advice you'd have for older men in dating a himbo?
Respect boundaries and personal space. Learn as much as you can from each other through shared experiences and understanding your emotions. Most importantly, do not treat your himbo like a trophy. Trophies are meant to be polished. Well so are himbos, but you know what I mean.
What is the perfect gift to give a DILF for Valentine’s Day?
The perfect gift to give to a daddy is a gift card from a plastic surgeon’s office to use for a penile facial, botox, microdermabrasion, and hair regeneration treatments, which is about $17,325.99. I’m worth it. I mean … he’s worth it.
Daddy Tony
Daddy Tony
Courtesy Daddy Tony
What is one piece of advice you'd have for younger men in dating a DILF?
My advice to a himbo dating a daddy is don't make any age jokes or comparisons. It's already a given that the daddy is older, and making jokes about it makes it more of a thing than it has to be.
What is one piece of advice you'd have for older men in dating a himbo?
My advice to a Daddy dating a himbo is don't be controlling or always think you know what's best. Himbos are young but still grown adults and can make decisions as well.
What is the perfect gift to give a DILF for Valentine’s Day?
The perfect gift for a daddy is another himbo in the bedroom.
Nicholas
Daddy Nick
Courtesy Daddy Nick
What is one piece of advice you'd have for younger men in dating a DILF?
Do lots of squats in g-strings.
What is one piece of advice you'd have for older men in dating a himbo?
Do lots of squats in jockstraps.
What is the perfect gift to give a DILF for Valentine’s Day?
The perfect gift for a DILF is Botox. The perfect gift for a himbo is Scrotox.
Foxx
Daddy Fox
Courtesy Daddy Fox
What is one piece of advice you'd have for younger men in dating a DILF?
Don’t call him ‘Daddy’ in public, unless you enjoy awkward stares. Appreciate his gadgets, that boombox could come in handy someday. And, get ready for unsolicited life advice, but know that he will be a solid guy if you are.
What is one piece of advice you'd have for older men in dating a himbo?
Brush up on your TikTok skills. Invest in an extra charger, his phone will die often because he’s always on it. Don’t assume he knows who Diana Ross is. Just smile and say, “I’ll explain later.” Avoid saying ‘Back in my day,’ or you will get heavy eye-rolling. Most importantly, be patient.
What is the perfect gift to give a DILF for Valentine’s Day?
Take mental notes while dating so you’ll know what each other would enjoy, if not cash will always do. Other than that, head, head, and more head.
Robert
Daddy Robert
Courtesy Daddy Robert
What is one piece of advice you'd have for younger men in dating a DILF?
Let go, soak in some of that wisdom, and hopefully learn from it all. Older men can have a sense of security and relationship knowledge that can benefit you if you choose to allow it.
What is one piece of advice you'd have for older men in dating a himbo?
Do not fall victim to the himbo who is only interested in your financial security. This relationship should be based on the love that develops, not how thick your wallet is.
What is the perfect gift to give a DILF for Valentine’s Day?
This one is easy but not because most daddies have probably accumulated most things that they want. But there is that one thing that they need and the himbo who figures that out will be cherished.
Timmy
Himbo Timmy
Courtesy Himbo Timmy
What is one piece of advice you'd have for younger men in dating a DILF?
Be authentically yourself, be patient, and communicate. Communication is key and goes a long way when building a healthy relationship.
What is one piece of advice you'd have for older men in dating a himbo?
Be open-minded, patient, and not afraid to live life on the edge. Treat your himbo as an equal, just because we are younger doesn't mean we aren't mature.
What is the perfect gift to give a himbo for Valentine’s Day?
The perfect gift for a DILF/Himbo is a subscription to OUTtv. Just kidding. Make memories. Holidays are my favorite time of year all because of memories. No gift or item will really make me feel as warm inside as making memories with the ones I love.
Steff
Himbo Steff
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What is one piece of advice you'd have for younger men in dating a DILF?
One piece of advice is definitely don’t allow yourself to feel emotionally dominated unless it’s consensual of course. Know your values, know who you are, and be confident in your wants and needs. I will also say really allow yourself to see things in a broader spectrum. Allow yourself to see different points of view and be open to conversation. As long as you are both respecting each other and being understanding, dating someone well over your age becomes really interesting and fun.
What is one piece of advice you'd have for older men in dating a himbo?
I’d say for older men to be open to change or understand modern times. Be excited for conversation about things that could be new and exciting to himbos. Give himbos room to feel heard too without feeling like they are being judged. Definitely don’t be scared to take charge if your himbo likes that. But also don’t be afraid of being vulnerable and emotional. Loosen up.
What is the perfect gift to give for Valentine’s Day?
The perfect gift to give a DILF would be semi-formal wear or a new pair of glasses. Daddies like to feel and look sharp. And for himbos either concert tickets to their favorite artists. Or, things that smell good like cologne, perfumes, lotion, etc.
Samuel
Himbo Sam
Courtesy Himbo Sam
What is one piece of advice you'd have for younger men in dating a DILF?
Be present in your relationship and make sure to not to lose sight of your individuality. Create boundaries, communicate effectively, and learn to grow together.
What is one piece of advice you'd have for older men in dating a himbo?
Make sure you’re having fun together. Sexual experiences and desires are so vast nowadays that it’s important to explore them together. There’s a great love and vulnerability that comes with having sex so simply put, just do it.
What is the perfect gift to give a himbo for Valentine’s Day?
The gift of love. But if that’s not enough, take them on a seven-day Atlantis cruise.
Dani
Himbo Danni
Courtesy Himbo Danni
What is one piece of advice you'd have for younger folks in dating a DILF?
Use lots of lube.
What is one piece of advice you'd have for older men in dating a himbo?
Use lots of lube.
What is the perfect gift to give for Valentine’s Day?
For a DILF, Viagra. For a himbo, sexy underwear.
Jay
Himbo Jay
Courtesy Himbo Jay
What is one piece of advice you'd have for younger men in dating a DILF?
Be patient. All the new knowledge and perspective that you will bring to them takes time to process, but with the right person, they will be open to listen.
What is one piece of advice you'd have for older men in dating a himbo?
Let loose and enjoy.
What is the perfect gift to give a himbo for Valentine’s Day?
A car.
Justin
Himbo Justin
Courtesy Himbo Justin
What is one piece of advice you'd have for younger men in dating a DILF?
Relax a little bit! I believe the great philosopher-poet Andrew Christian once said that an older man likely can’t even conceive of half the things you’re insecure about and if he does he doesn’t care.
What is one piece of advice you'd have for older men in dating a himbo?
Be sensitive! Communicate and especially, if you’re a sweet, young himbo’s first older man. You could have a huge impact on what he might expect for himself going forward.
What is the perfect gift to give a himbo for Valentine’s Day?
Five thousand dollars in crisp, newly minted, American cash money.
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Nikki Aye
Nikki Aye is a photojournalist and the digital photo editor for equalpride’s full family of publications. As a lifelong activist, Nikki is passionate about telling the important stories shaping our queer historical narrative.
Nikki Aye is a photojournalist and the digital photo editor for equalpride’s full family of publications. As a lifelong activist, Nikki is passionate about telling the important stories shaping our queer historical narrative.