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We are more than halfway through The Real L Word and the girls are amping it up. Whitney's engaging in lesbian sex for the world to see, Mikey's still handling LA Fashion Week, Rose is using her income on strippers and hotel rooms and Tracy poses for Bound Mag with Nat Garcia, Cathy DeBuono and Jill Bennett. Thanks to Lucky Dog Leather's Lucia Gerbino for helping to get those wheels in motion!

As I nurse my third major hangover of the season, I've been thinking about what I, as a lesbian, could not possibly live without, and in the spirit of the holidays compiled Top 10 Things Every Lesbian Should Be Thankful For. I'm trying to stay as far away from stereotypes as possible so flannels, Birkenstocks, mullets, Tevas, cats, Katherine Moennig, and women's basketball are not on my list. Included are Sarah Waters, South of Nowhere, beer, high heels and Facebook.

Sara Ramirez and Brooke Smith don't beat around the bush on Grey's Anatomy. Mad Men's Christina Hendricks'Playtex Bras could harness the sun's power. Olivia Wilde gets girl on girl freaky on House... and more.