pronoun usage

Chaz Bono admits he's hated his body since puberty, but a sex change operation never occurred to him, as revealed in the trailer for his documentary series Becoming Chaz. Bono says he's now living in the body that looks the way he wants. Also in the clip, Bono's mother, Cher, admits that she needs to start using masculine pronouns for her transgender son, after flubbing pronoun usage in past interviews.

The college may be #2 ranked in the nation, but its policy on pronouns takes it to the top.

My ex is butch. She might be a prissy French teacher who spends all her time reading Baudelaire but she’s butch nonetheless. Certainly too butch for Mary Janes. But am I a jerk for thinking she’s wearing girly shoes? What’s going on here? She’s still butch.  Her shoes don’t change her gender, she’s like half a dude. She could be wearing Manolo Blahniks and still be butch