15 non-sexual reasons you should date a kinkster

There's a lot more to kinky people than you think

There’s a personality type that often accompanies someone kinky. A personality type that is open, understanding, introspective, and daring, making them the perfect partner.

Here are 15 reasons you should date someone kinky that have nothing to do with sex (though that's a good reason, too!).

It'll broaden your comfort zone

Maybe exploring kinks is something you're not used to or something you've wanted to explore but haven't. Dating someone who's into kink will help broaden both your mind and your comfort zone.

Maybe you'll try something new

Kinky people know what they like, but they also have to figure out what that is first. Not every kinky person is the same, so it's important to remember that at all times. Try not to generalize everything regarding kinky experiences, but at the same time, you never know what you're going to get when you date someone kinky, so you might try out something you never thought possible before.

They're open to new experiences

Kinky people are open to making new connections, collecting experiences, and trying novel activities that push the boundaries.

They're willing to trust others

Trust is the most necessary component of any BDSM-type encounter. Without trust, neither you nor he will ever be able to enjoy it.

They know how to have a good time

They're always going to be the life of the party, and everyone will love to see the two of you together.

They're willing to be vulnerable

Kinky men and women are willing to be vulnerable. They’re willing to put themselves on the line and be exposed. Naked. Both literally and figuratively.

They'll always have something to talk about

You might not like what they have to say, and some of their stories may feel a bit wild, but one thing's for sure, they'll always have an interesting story to tell.

They have serious introspection

People who engage in kinky sex are thinkers. They’re self-aware. They evaluate why they do things. They question who they are and what they want to be. They critically challenge what society has deemed taboo and decide for themselves what’s right and wrong.

They want more out of life

Kinky people are tired of the monotony of everyday life. They’re tired with their 9-5 job. They’re tired with daily bullshit. They want something more out of life. They’re not satisfied with what they have and are willing to work hard to make their lives better.

They can tolerate pain and humiliation

It takes a certain type of person to be able to handle both emotional and physical pain. A resilient person who is not only strong-willed, but also secure enough in himself to handle emotionally intense experiences.

They have a better understanding of relational dynamics

Power dynamics manifest themselves in every relationship, whether we like it or not. Instead of sweeping them under the rug, kinky individuals acknowledge their existence, and use them to strengthen their relationship, as opposed to underhandedly manipulate their partner.

They're adventurous

Never a dull moment. They’re willing to take risks.

They love harder

Kinky folks are intense and that intensity carries over to the person they love.

They prioritize pleasure

Not in a purely hedonic way. They understand the complexities of pleasure, and how it can be a very fulfilling component to a well-rounded life.

They're smarter

Because they’re more introspective, inquisitive, and challenging of society, kinky people tend to be more self-aware, and just plain smarter.