30 sex toys that every gay man should own
| 02/15/24
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...that gay men can get enjoyment out of (either alone or with their partners), but what are the best choices among the flock? There's just so many to choose from (like a FleshJack from adult film star Levi Karter's collection), so here are 30 of our handpicked recommendations—ranked, for your pleasure!
The nipples are super sensitive and a great turn on, so these are perfect to add to the list. Grab one here.
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For novice and experienced users alike, these glass anal dilator sets are designed to open the three anal sphincters, and the added weight makes it feel closer to the real deal. Get yourself a set from Future Method here.
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These are made to feel like you're with another partner, and might even have you wanting to replace them. They're 100% waterproof and will be your new favorite toy. Grab one here.
We'll talk about regular butt plugs and vibrating prostate massagers in a minute, but let's talk about a vibrating butt plug first. With seven different vibration settings, this toy is sure to make you figure out exactly what spots you like to get hit. Grab one here.
Nothing beats a good, old-fashioned cock ring. This is the easiest to wear around all day and will constantly keep the blood flowing. Get one here.
Why waste money on a cock ring and a vibrating dildo when you can just buy a toy that comes with both? There are 10 vibration modes, 4 speeds, and 6 patterns to get the most out of your variety. Get yours here.
Everybody loves a good massage, don't they? Get yourself a prostate massager here.
With a double-ended dildo, you and your partner can each enjoy the pleasure of having being the top and the bottom simultaneously. Get one here.
Everybody has to start somewhere, right? If you're new to bottoming, get yourself a kit before you start hitting the big leagues. Grab one here.
This is a great fantasy toy to add to the mix. If you've never used one, you're missing out. Get one here.
There's something oddly charming about cloning him for your entertainment and pleasure. It might seem odd at first, but hey, we highly recommend it. Pick it up here.
Pens are perfect for leaving sexy notes and words on your partner. We recommend these edible ones because, hey, it makes clean up even more fun!
Purchasing a pair of these bad boys makes for some exciting bedroom adventures. Are they necessary for a good time? No, but they certainly spice things up. Order them right here.
Rope isn't everyone's favorite flavor of bedroom fun, but for those interested in exploring kink, it's can be a vital first-step. Grab some soft and sexy rope over here.
Sometimes you just need a helper to get off. That's where the Tube Love Glove comes in. Pick it up at AdamMale.
What's some anal play without a bullet vibrator? See what we mean with the Colt Xtreme Turbo Bullet.
Strap ons are perfect if size or soreness are an issue for a top. We recommend Adam & Eve's Hollow Strap On, available online here.
Grabbing a pump is worth it for the killer size and sensation that a pump brings to you down below. We recommend this beginner's pump to try.
For when you really want to be nice and clean and ready for your partner, we highly recommend the Ultra Douche. Grab it right here.
Who said safe sex had to be dull sex? Nothing like a flavored condom to spice things up a bit. We recommend Durex's tropical variety.
Lube can be a toy? If it's a premium lube, yes! We highly recommend Pjur for anal, it helps improve sensations and minimizes pain. Just be aware that it's a silicone lube. Grab it here.
Sometimes you need a nicely sized dildo to please yourself. In comes the Slimline, a perfect choice for anyone that likes their dildos to be colorful. Pick it up here.
Ever wanted to simulate that deep throat experience? This is the perfect stroker to do the trick. We highly recommend, because everyone deserves to be deep throated now and then. Pick it up over here.
Eggs make for great masturbation aids, and they're relatively affordable to boot. Grab our recommendation right here.
A vibrating dildo should be in every gay man's bedroom. This model is the perfect opportunity to buy one: it has a glossy smooth texture, a tip easy for penetration, and the perfect curve. Pick it up right here.
Nothing like a cock sheath to stimulate both the top and the bottom during a little bit of anal. Goes well with water based lube too! Highly recommended.
You know what we love about the Anal Trainer Kit? It comes in three sizes, it's perfect for first-timers, and it's only $29.95. Three butt plugs for the price of one is amazing, and perfect for couples. Grab it right here.
It's one of our favorite gender-neutral sex toys, and for good reason: you can use this bad girl on anyone. Grab it over at Amazon.
There's nothing like a cock ring that vibrates. Keep him hard and very aroused, right? We love this one from TLAgay.
Every man needs one: an anal plug that vibrates. We love this one on Amazon, plus it's on discount! Go grab it!
Ana Valens is a trans woman and queer critic. She writes about representation in media and the daily lives of queer and trans women living in the United States. Alongside PRIDE, her work has been seen on Bitch Media, ZEAL, The Mary Sue, Kill Screen, and The Toast.
Ana Valens is a trans woman and queer critic. She writes about representation in media and the daily lives of queer and trans women living in the United States. Alongside PRIDE, her work has been seen on Bitch Media, ZEAL, The Mary Sue, Kill Screen, and The Toast.
Andrew J. Stillman is a freelance writer and yoga instructor exploring the world. Check him out at andrewjstillman.com or follow him @andrewjstillman on all the things.
Andrew J. Stillman is a freelance writer and yoga instructor exploring the world. Check him out at andrewjstillman.com or follow him @andrewjstillman on all the things.