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Meet The Couples From Netflix's 'The Ultimatum: Queer Love'
Ariel Messman-Rucker
Ariel Messman-Rucker is an Oakland-born journalist who now calls the Pacific Northwest her home. When she’s not writing about politics and queer pop culture, she can be found reading, hiking, or talking about horror movies with the Zombie Grrlz Horror Podcast Network.
Ariel Messman-Rucker is an Oakland-born journalist who now calls the Pacific Northwest her home. When she’s not writing about politics and queer pop culture, she can be found reading, hiking, or talking about horror movies with the Zombie Grrlz Horror Podcast Network.
| 05/25/23
Meet The Couples From Netflix's 'The Ultimatum: Queer Love'
Meet the queer couples of ‘The Ultimatum’!
Netflix has a whole host of reality tv shows about straight people finding love — borrring! — but we finally got a queer version and we couldn’t be happier!
The Ultimatum: Queer Love is the newest love-based reality tv show from the streaming giant that features a cast of five queer couples made up exclusively of queer women and nonbinary people.
In this spinoff of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On, each couple on the show is struggling with the decision to get married. For one partner marriage is a deal breaker, but the other isn’t sure they’re ready to settle down. To help them make this tough decision, the couples will split up and choose someone else to date from the group. “Among this group of queer folks, the possibilities are endless,” according to Netflix. The contestants will then experience two trial marriages, one with their original partner and one with someone new.
Made by the same creators as Love is Blind, the show will be hosted by JoAnna García Swisher, who you likely know from Freaks and Geeks, Reba, and the Netflix show Sweet Magnolias.
The first four episodes of the new show are available on Netflix now and the rest will be released on May 31 and June 7.
Scroll through to meet the couples on Netflix's The Ultimatum: Queer Love.
Lexi Goldberg & Raelyn Cheung-Sutton
Lexi Goldberg (25, she/her) and Raelyn Cheung-Sutton (27, she/her)
Lexi and Rae have been together for three years. They met on Bumble and had their first date in West Hollywood. Lexi is ready for marriage, but basketballer-turned-software engineer Rea isn’t so sure.
Yoly Rojas & Mal Wright
Yoly Rojas (34, she/her) and Mal Wright (36, she/her/they)
After three years together, Yoly has issued Mal an ultimatum. They met at Chicago Pride and have stayed together through a move to Seattle, a breakup, and a reconciliation. Yoly is ready for the next step, but Mal wants to wait until their finances are in order.
Mildred Woody & Tiff Der
Mildred Woody (33, she/her) and Tiff Der (32, they/them)
The couple have been together for two year after meeting when Tiff slid into Mildred’s DMs. Mildred, who has a teenage son, issued the ultimatum to Tiff who is a little gun shy after going through a prior divorce and is worried that their communication skills are a red flag.
Vanessa Papa & Xander Boger
Vanessa Papa (30, she/her) and Xander Boger (30, she/her/they)
Vanessa and Xander met in high school because their then-boyfriends were best friends. They reconnected after graduation and have now been dating for four years. Xander is ready to tie the knot, but Vanessa is afraid of losing her freedom.
Aussie Chau & Sam Mark
Aussie Chau (42, Aussie) and Sam Mark (31, she/her)
The pair met in an online LGBTQ+ social group during the pandemic and have now been together for a year and a half. Even though Sam is 11 years younger, she’s given Aussie the ultimatum. Aussie thinks they shouldn’t rush into anything and should live together longer before taking the plunge.
| 05/25/23
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