What did Selena Gomez REALLY say to Taylor Swift at the Golden Globes?

The “Come & Get It” singer was forced to do damage control after the event. A source told PEOPLE that she “never even saw or spoke to” Chalamet or Jenner, and Gomez herself claimed on Instagram that she was simply telling Taylor about friends of hers who had hooked up.

“Not that that’s anyone’s business,” she wrote—which, fair.

Page Sixplatforming a “lip-reading expert” who agrees with the initial viral assessment of what went down has helped keep fueling the rumors, while Chalamet’s casual attempts to diffuse them haven’t really done any good.

But we ultimately don’t know for sure what was said, and quite frankly, it’s so much more interesting that way. Because even before Gomez ever got a chance to respond, the clip was getting memed, and some of the joke claims about what was actually being said between the trio were just way, way more fun than some goofy failed photo opp with Willy Wonka.

It’s only been four months since Gomez declared she would “never be a meme again” after unintentionally stirring up controversy at last year’s VMAs when people assumed a negative reaction she had was about Olivia Rodrigo’s vocals rather than actual explosions taking place on stage.

And it’s understandable, really, considering there are no shortage of people who are genuinely mean-spirited about her meme-worthy moments. But we really should all be grateful that Gomez keeps giving us so much to work with.