ComingOut
David Archuleta Comes Out, Shares Struggles With Sexuality & Faith
"I like to keep to myself but also thought this was important to share."
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June 12 2021 4:12 PM EST
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"I like to keep to myself but also thought this was important to share."
American Idol alum David Archuleta has come out as a member of the LGBTQ+ community in a new post on Instagram.
"I like to keep to myself but also thought this was important to share because I know so many other people from religious upbringings feel the same way," the 30-year-old wrote. "I’ve been open to myself and my close family for some years now that I am not sure about my own sexuality."
The "Crush" singer rose to fame in 2008, when he was just 17-years-old, on the reality competition series and has always faced scrutiny about his sexuality.
While he initially thought he was gay, it seems to be more complicated than that.
"I came out in 2014 as gay to my family. But then I had similar feelings for both genders so maybe a spectrum of bisexual. Then I also have learned I don’t have too much sexual desires and urges as most people which works I guess because I have a commitment to save myself until marriage. Which people call asexual when they don’t experience sexual urges. There are people experiencing the same feelings of being LGBTQIA+, (i know that’s a lot of letters that a lot of people don’t understand, but there are a lot of unique experiences people feel and live that make them feel isolated and alone that are represented) who are wrestling to follow their beliefs that are so important to them, just as I have. Idk what to make of it and I don’t have all the answers. I just invite you to please consider making room to be more understanding and compassionate to those who are LGBTQIA+, and those who are a part of that community and trying to find that balance with their faith which also is a huge part of their identity like myself."
Archuleta has publicly spoken about his faith and Mormonism in the past. In his post, he implored Christians to be more accepting. "I think we can do better as people of faith and Christians, including Latter-day Saints, to listen more to the wrestle between being LGBTQIA+ and a person of faith. There are more than you may realize going through that wrestle after all the misunderstandings that come with it. I don’t think it should come down to feeling you have to accept one or the other."
It seems as if the years of speculation have gotten to Archuleta, and he goes on to ask fans for privacy. "For me to find peace the reality has been to accept both are real things I experience and make who I am. I’ve yet to figure out what that means but I appreciate you listening to this personal matter. Again I don’t feel comfortable sharing it, but felt I needed to bring more awareness to people in my same situation and let you know you’re not alone. You can be part of the LGBTQIA+ community and still believe in God and His gospel plan."
What followed in the comments is an outpouring of love. "Love you man, and so proud of who you are," wrote David Cook, winner of Archuleta's American Idol season.
We're so proud of David for sharing his journey with the world!
Taylor Henderson is a PRIDE.com contributor. This proud Texas Bama studied Media Production/Studies and Sociology at The University of Texas at Austin, where he developed his passions for pop culture, writing, and videography. He's absolutely obsessed with Beyoncé, mangoes, and cheesy YA novels that allow him to vicariously experience the teen years he spent in the closet. He's also writing one!
Taylor Henderson is a PRIDE.com contributor. This proud Texas Bama studied Media Production/Studies and Sociology at The University of Texas at Austin, where he developed his passions for pop culture, writing, and videography. He's absolutely obsessed with Beyoncé, mangoes, and cheesy YA novels that allow him to vicariously experience the teen years he spent in the closet. He's also writing one!