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Painfully Relatable Memes for People Who Grew Up Gay
Painfully Relatable Memes for People Who Grew Up Gay
Growing up in the closet is THE WORST.
byraffy
September 04 2020 1:20 PM EST
December 09 2022 9:12 AM EST
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Painfully Relatable Memes for People Who Grew Up Gay
Growing up in the closet is THE WORST.
#GrowingUpGay is tough.
It always feels like the people you love the most don't really understand and know you...
\u201cMy parents: Our son ISN\u2019T gay!!\n\n11 year old me in my moms heels:\u201d— \ud83d\udcab\u2b50\ufe0f (@\ud83d\udcab\u2b50\ufe0f) 1536688320
...and it feels like you always have to pretend to be something that you're not.
\u201c#GrowingUpGay pretending to be straight\u201d— \u2764\ufe0f\u200d\ud83d\udd25 HARLS \u2764\ufe0f\u200d\ud83d\udd25 (@\u2764\ufe0f\u200d\ud83d\udd25 HARLS \u2764\ufe0f\u200d\ud83d\udd25) 1437003670
When you're in the closet, school is literally the worst thing ever...
\u201c#GrowingUpGay when the teacher splits up the boys from the girls and you sit there with all the straight boys like:\u201d— James (@James) 1532477538
\u201c*in high school*\n\nPerson: Can I ask you a question?\n\nMe, a closeted homosexual: *Stunned silence* \n\nPerson: are you a gay? \n\nMe*:\u201d— James (@James) 1536716109
...and temptation is literally everywhere.
\u201c#GrowingUpGay\u201d— Gay Geek & Fabulous (@Gay Geek & Fabulous) 1537045202
You feel like you're always on edge...
...and it sucks that people always assume you're straight.
\u201c#Growingupgay\nME: Can I have a sleepover?\n\nMUM: OK but no girls..\n\nME:\u201d— Cam J Hall (@Cam J Hall) 1515701601
There are a few people who you can trust with knowing your sexuality, but they sometimes make you feel like you're just their token gay friend...
\u201c"OMG YOURE GAY!! IVE ALWAYS WANTED A GAY BEST FRIEND!!!!" #GrowingUpGay\u201d— stanley (@stanley) 1436963589
...and then there are the jerks who don't believe you're actually gay (because for some reason, they think all gay people totes look the same). *eye roll*
\u201cCoworker: well you don\u2019t LOOK gay\nMe:\u201d— Emma (@Emma) 1536711866
And don't even get us started with the "No homo!" dudes.
\u201cWhen your straight friends would say something gay and then say "No Homo!" #growingupgay\u201d— \ud83d\udc51 The Mad Queen \ud83d\udc51 (@\ud83d\udc51 The Mad Queen \ud83d\udc51) 1467438734
But one of the hardest parts about growing up gay was definitely thinking that you'll have to stay in the closet forever...
\u201cWhen ppl asked me if I were gay while I was still in the closet so I had to act SHOOK \n#GrowingUpGay\u201d— Demian 21 (@Demian 21) 1472522773
\u201c#GrowingUpGay and in the closet:\u201d— marco (@marco) 1467477166
\u201cI got 99 problems but a guy aint one cause I'm still in the closet\n#growingupgay\u201d— TYPICAL GAY TEEN (@TYPICAL GAY TEEN) 1449477806
\u201cWhen people start talking about gays and you're sitting there in the closet like #GrowingUpGay\u201d— Southern Homo (@Southern Homo) 1436993972
Yeah...growing up sucks.
Raffy is a Los Angeles-based writer, editor, video creator, critic, and digital director of Out Magazine. The former editor-in-chief of PRIDE, he is also a die-hard Rihanna and Sailor Moon stan who loves to write about all things pop culture, entertainment, and identities. Follow him on Instagram (@raffyermac) and Twitter (@byraffy), and subscribe to his YouTube channel.
Raffy is a Los Angeles-based writer, editor, video creator, critic, and digital director of Out Magazine. The former editor-in-chief of PRIDE, he is also a die-hard Rihanna and Sailor Moon stan who loves to write about all things pop culture, entertainment, and identities. Follow him on Instagram (@raffyermac) and Twitter (@byraffy), and subscribe to his YouTube channel.