Wand or rabbit? 5 sexy things we learned about Chappell Roan in her 'Call Her Daddy' interview
| 03/26/25
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Chappel Roan on the 'Call Her Daddy' podcast
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Queer pop icon Chappell Roan just revealed that not only has she been in a relationship that her fans didn’t know about for the last six months, but she opened up about her fave sex toys, why she’s into kinky girls, and her opinion on pegging.
Today, Roan was interviewed by Alex Cooper on her popular Call Her Daddy podcast, and their in-depth convo is full of juicy deets about the Grammy award winner’s love life.
Not only do the two women discuss the hawt and very sapphic meaning behind Roan’s new country single “The Giver,” but also drill down on why men are so lame in bed and how different sex is with femmes.
On why men are bad in bed
Roan explained that “The Giver” is about how generous women are in bed compared to men. The 27-year-old singer-songwriter admitted that she has dated a lot of “not awesome people” in the past who “could not get it through their head like what they're doing, like wasn't right.”
While Roan admits that she probably should have broken up with these men sooner, she is confused by why they aren’t trying to be better lovers.
“But the fact that I had dated so many guys who do it wrong and don't really, they haven't figured out that they need to do better, that they need to give more, the giver,” she explained. "What I'm saying in the song is, these country boys are not gonna give you what you need if you wanna have an orgasm. Which a lot of ladies don't. Apparently.”
Why Chappell Roan loves 'kinky girls'
Alex Cooper and Chappell Roan on the 'Call Her Daddy' podcast.
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Not only is her new song about Roan’s love of being the one giving pleasure during sex, but she revealed to Cooper that she also loves “kinky girls.”
“Of course we love the doms, we love the subs, like love. But there's still a giver. There's still a giving, whatever. So I wrote ‘The Giver’ about that, just about like, I think specifically in fem relationships. It’s such an understanding that is so giving…”
Why ‘eating a girl out’ is easy
Chappell Roan sitting on the 'Call Her Daddy Podcast'
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Men had “fooled” her into thinking going down on a woman was tricky, but when she started sleeping with women she realized just how wrong they were.
"When I started hooking up with women, I realized how easy it is, actually. I realized how easy it is to eat a girl out, and how this whole time I thought it was, 'Oh, your neck hurts so bad.' I thought, 'Oh… it's, like, hard. My jaw hurts.' You know what's hard? Sucking dick," Roan said. "Eating a girl out? You can lay down!"
What she has to say about pegging
Roan admitted that she was never into anal because men would never reciprocate and let her peg them, but once she started leaning into her sapphic attractions, she realized it’s “enjoyable.”
"I was fooled. I was foolish to think that. Of course it wasn't as hard, what I was doing for them. Of course it wasn’t,” Roan explained. “That’s why I would never do anal. Because I was like, 'Then let me peg you.' They would be like, 'Haha, no way.' [I would reply] 'Why not, we can just try. Let me peg you, and then we can… Maybe we'll try.’"
"But when I started hooking up with women, I was like, 'Fuck you guys.' This is enjoyable, first of all. Second of all: [It's] way, way easier. It's actually fucking crazy. So what, you can't find the clit? Work harder. It may take 10 minutes longer. That's fine."
Which sex toys she likes best
Alex Cooper and Chappell Roan on the 'Call Her Daddy' podcast.
Courtesy of Call Her Daddy
During a lightning round of the interview, Roan got candid about what toys she likes to play with in the bedroom. Since her song “Red Wine Supernova” has the line “I heard you like magic/I’ve got a wand and a rabbit,” Cooper asked which of the two sex toys she likes best.
"I do not fuck with rabbits. I don't fuck with like a lot of them, honestly,” before admitting she’s a rose vibe girlie, ”I guess wand… or, like, the little rose thing? But it's not the rose.”
Cooper followed up by asking about one of her favorite sex toys, ”Have you tried the one that like pulsates and it's like the 'womanizer' thing?”
Roan responded excitedly, ”Yes!” before Cooper continued with a description of what the toy does, "It kind of, like, pulsates on your clit. It's the best fucking thing ever.”
“Yes,” Roan said, agreeing.
Watching Roan rise to fame has been exciting for fans everywhere, but seeing her being comfortable talking about queer sex on such a large and far-reaching platform is truly meaningful — and fun!
Watch the full episode of Call Her Daddy below.
