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Does the leather community have a Nazi problem?
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Does the leather community have a Nazi problem?

A recent controversy at the Tom of Finland Foundation has sparked debate about the line between fetish and fascism.

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Adios, AI: Why I'm quitting Grindr for good

Back on the dating market, the Last Call columnist finds a few reasons to unplug from technology.

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Here's why puppy play is great if you're new to kink

Ready to try something not-so-vanilla? This spicy subculture may be just the off-the-leash scene you're looking for.

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Love&Sex

How I survived 40 days and 40 nights without Grindr & what it taught me about gay culture

"I wanted to see if I could meet guys the way my predecessors did, when Grindr was a wooded park after midnight."

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Kink terms every queer man needs to know

If you don't know, now you know!

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Simple tips for your first gay bathhouse experience

Headed to the bathhouse for the first time? Here are some things you need to know before stepping through those steamy doors.

20 steamiest supernatural gay sex scenes from TV
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20 steamiest supernatural gay sex scenes from TV

Vampire and witches and psychics, oh my! These steamy scenes really put a spell on our libidos!

how to be a good bottom: Tips for Happier, Healthier Bottoming
Love&Sex

20 tips for happier, healthier bottoming

Whether you're an experienced bottom or a newbie, these tips could come in handy.

10 tips for a better long-distance relationship
Love&Sex

10 tips for a better long-distance relationship

LDRs suck, but they can still work out!

30 Kinky Terms Queer Men Need to Know
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30 Kinky Terms Queer Men Need to Know

If you don't know, now you know!

Spirit Day Began With One High School Student's Tumblr Post
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Spirit Day Began With One High School Student's Tumblr Post

Who knew a simple blog post could spark a movement?

17 Tips for Happier, Healthier Bottoming
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17 Tips for Happier, Healthier Bottoming

Whether you're an experienced bottom or a newbie, these tips could come in handy.

10 Simple Tips for Your First Bathhouse Experience
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10 Simple Tips for Your First Bathhouse Experience

Headed to the bathhouse for the first time? Here are some things you need to know.

Straight Folks, There Are Some Spaces You Don't Belong In
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Straight Folks, There Are Some Spaces You Don't Belong In

There are some places—like the backrooms of gay bars—that should remain exclusive, Alexander Cheves writes.

The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex
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The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex

Finally, a medical professional gets to the bottom of anal.

More (And Better) Gay Sex Scenes, Please
TV

More (And Better) Gay Sex Scenes, Please

American Gods showcases passion, ecstasy, and release—we haven't seen anything like this on TV since Looking.

Don’t Make Vanilla Guys Bark
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Don’t Make Vanilla Guys Bark

“Who’s my little wolf? Moooo!” 

16 Signs Your Gay Relationship Is Over
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16 Signs Your Gay Relationship Is Over

These warning signs deserve your attention.

20 Signs Your Hookup Is Your Next Boyfriend
Gay

20 Signs Your Hookup Is Your Next Boyfriend

A gay/bi man's guide to determining if a hookup can become friend, lover, or partner.

The Lessons I Learned As A Gay Man Working Side by Side with Queer Women
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The Lessons I Learned As A Gay Man Working Side by Side with Queer Women

Three years as president of my college LGBT support group—which was made up of mostly women—taught me what a queer community should look like.