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Here's why puppy play is great if you're new to kink

Ready to try something not-so-vanilla? This spicy subculture may be just the off-the-leash scene you're looking for.

How I survived 40 days and 40 nights without Grindr & what it taught me about gay culture

"I wanted to see if I could meet guys the way my predecessors did, when Grindr was a wooded park after midnight."

Kink terms every queer man needs to know

If you don't know, now you know!

Simple tips for your first gay bathhouse experience

Headed to the bathhouse for the first time? Here are some things you need to know before stepping through those steamy doors.

20 steamiest supernatural gay sex scenes from TV

Vampire and witches and psychics, oh my! These steamy scenes really put a spell on our libidos!

20 tips for happier, healthier bottoming

Whether you're an experienced bottom or a newbie, these tips could come in handy.

10 tips for a better long-distance relationship

LDRs suck, but they can still work out!

30 Kinky Terms Queer Men Need to Know
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30 Kinky Terms Queer Men Need to Know

If you don't know, now you know!

Spirit Day Began With One High School Student's Tumblr Post

Who knew a simple blog post could spark a movement?

17 Tips for Happier, Healthier Bottoming

Whether you're an experienced bottom or a newbie, these tips could come in handy.

10 Simple Tips for Your First Bathhouse Experience
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10 Simple Tips for Your First Bathhouse Experience

Headed to the bathhouse for the first time? Here are some things you need to know.

Straight Folks, There Are Some Spaces You Don't Belong In

There are some places—like the backrooms of gay bars—that should remain exclusive, Alexander Cheves writes.

The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex

Finally, a medical professional gets to the bottom of anal.

More (And Better) Gay Sex Scenes, Please

American Gods showcases passion, ecstasy, and release—we haven't seen anything like this on TV since Looking.

Don’t Make Vanilla Guys Bark

“Who’s my little wolf? Moooo!” 

16 Signs Your Gay Relationship Is Over

These warning signs deserve your attention.

20 Signs Your Hookup Is Your Next Boyfriend

A gay/bi man's guide to determining if a hookup can become friend, lover, or partner.

The Lessons I Learned As A Gay Man Working Side by Side with Queer Women

Three years as president of my college LGBT support group—which was made up of mostly women—taught me what a queer community should look like. 

The Lessons I Learned As A Gay Man Working Side by Side with Queer Women

Three years as president of my college LGBT support group—which was made up of mostly women—taught me what a queer community should look like. 

After My HIV Diagnosis, Kink Sex Saved My Life

In the weeks following my HIV diagnosis, I went from zombie hookups to sex terrors. Here's how I found my way out.